Which services run on each server in SharePoint 2010 server setup ( 1 App, 2 WFE,1 Sql)

Front End Servers

Microsoft SharePoint Foundation Web Application
Search Query and Site Settings Service
SharePoint Server Search Service

Application Server

Access Database Service
Application Registry Service
Business Data Connectivity Service
Central Administration
Claims to Windows Token Service
Document Conversions Launcher Service
Document Conversions Load Balancer Service
Excel Calculation Services
Lotus Notes Connector (If required)
Managed Metadata Web Service
Microsoft SharePoint Foundation Incoming E-mail
Microsoft SharePoint Foundation Workflow Timer Service
PerformancePoint Service
PowerPoint Service
Search Query and Site Settings Service
Secure Store Service
SharePoint Foundation Search
SharePoint Server Search
User Profile Service
User Profile Synchronization Service
Visio Graphics Service
Web Analytics Data Processing Service
Web Analytics Web Service
Word Automation Services
Word Viewing Service

Slipstreaming Patches in SharePoint 2010 with SP2

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